The Basics of Nonviolent Communication 1.3

Continuation of this video series on NVC with Marshall Rosenberg.  When we think we are making observations, often, we are making judgments. 

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Go here for part 1.2.


See also:  Transform Your Life with Nonviolent Communication.

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The Basics of Nonviolent Communication 1.2

In this video, Marshall continues with the basics of NVC.  He explains "the language of no choice", which is a form of jackal language.

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See also:  Transform Your Life with Nonviolent Communication.

And go here for the Blogging Carnival for Nonviolencee 2018.

The Basics of Nonviolent Communication 1.1

This is the first in a series of short videos from Marshall Rosenberg about the basics of NVC.   In this video, he talks about the purpose of NVC:  to connect in a way that makes  natural giving possible.  I love it when Marshall sings and plays the guitar.  He is just not self-conscious or embarrassed in any way - or, at least, he appears not to be. 

In this video, Marshall begins to break down the term "jackal language". 

Go here to see how you can transform your relationships, and your life, with Nonviolent Communication.

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Transform Your Life with Nonviolent Communication

This book has changed my life, and is changing people's lives all over the world. I find Nonviolent Communication SO inspiring. It is about connecting from the heart, in any situation, including situations of extreme violence.

For lots more information about NVC, and NVC resources, see the links below.

One thing I really appreciate about the book Nonviolent Communication is that the author, Marshall Rosenberg, gives lots of real-life examples of people using NVC in their daily lives.

When someone does or says something we don't like, we tend to react. We either judge them, blame them or label them, or a combinaion of the three. In NVC, this is called “jackal speech”.

Nonviolent Communication explains that jackal language is always an indication of unmet needs. Needs are the most important things to us – needs are what connect us to life. Thus, Marshall Rosenberg calls NVC “a language of life”.

Our feelings about ourselves are reflected in the way we speak about ourselves.

Blaming and labelling, or “jackal speech”, is not just directed at other people. We can, and do, jackal about ourselves as well. If you hear yourself saying something along the lines of “I'm so stupid”, this is an example of a self-jackal.

When we start to connect with the unmet needs that lie beneath the surface, we can stop being so angry with ourselves and others. This is the aspect of my NVC practice, and this book, that has affected me most profoundly. This powerful method frees up a lot of joy, energy and self-love. Marshall Rosenberg says, “What would make your life more wonderful?”.

When we have the practical skills which allow us to communicate from the heart, we can transform our relationships with family, loved ones, work colleagues, etc. We can prevent the terrible violence on the streets that our societies are currently experiencing. With the skills NVC gives us, we can transform our world.

I could say a lot more about NVC, but I strongly advise you to read the book. It could change your life.

Buy it here in the U.S.A. 

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Go here for more NVC books:

For more about NVC, see:

How to Transform Your Relationships

The Need for Self-Connection

Are We Listening to Our Children?

Child Sexual Abuse: Protecting Our Children

Go here for a video of Marshall Rosenberg, The Basics of Nonviolent Communication.

For even more about NVC, see these interviews with NVC authors:

Ike Lasater: From Conflict to Connection

Dian Killan: Connecting across Differences

Sylvia Haskvitz: Eat by Choice, Not by Habit

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How to Be Brilliant at Manifesting

Manifestation

Manifestation is another word for attraction, i.e. attracting what you want - as in the Law of Attraction.    

The truth is, you are manifesting all the time.  But you may not be happy with your results.  If not, I can help.   

I am brilliant at manifesting.  I recently manifested:  

• a brand new cooker (stove); 
• a brand new fridge freezer; and 
• a brand new washing machine.  

And I have achieved similar things many times before.  
For more information on how to manifest successfully, check out my ebook Secrets of Manifestation. 

Please note, this is probably NOT INSTANT manifestation.  But if you invest just a few minutes a day, you can start to make significant changes. 

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Plus go here for my review of Switchwords:  How to Use One Word to Get What You Want.  
Here's to your success! 

How to Deal with the Stress of Debt

How to Deal with the Stress of Debt

  

         I  have been watching "Can't Pay?  We'll Take It Away".  

It's so sad to see these people and companies that have got into debt for a variety of reasons. 

We know that being in debt can be very stressful. 

Sleepless nights, bailiffs knocking on your door - it's not nice. I have been through this myself.  And it was horrible. 

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For a FREE consultation with me, click here to contact me.  

Some facts about debt in the UK:  

According to Peppergoup, the number of County Court Judgements (CCJs) registered against consumers has risen to the highest level in over a decade during the first six months of 2017, as is confirmed by figures released by Registry Trust. 

One reason why so many more CCJs are being issued is that these judgements are being brought for smaller amounts of money than previously.  

In the first two quarters of 2017, 592,552 CCJs were registered against consumers in England and Wales. This figure is up 41% on the same period in 2016 and is the highest half-year figure since before the financial crisis.

Cocredo reports that the latest figures released by the Registry Trust show that the number of county court judgments (CCJs) registered against businesses in England and Wales rose during the third quarter of 2017, compared with the same period a year earlier.

During Q3 2017, there were 24,698 CCJs registered against businesses in England and Wales, which is a 27 percent increase than the same quarter in 2016. Prior to this figures had decreased year on year for the past 8 years. The total value of all business CCJs rose by 13 percent to £80,506,210; this was the first time since Q3 2011 that a relative increase occurred. 

The number of CCJs issued rose for the first time in eight years – and has rocketed by more than a quarter since 2016.

If you are worried or stressed about your finances, if you need help or support, please contact me for a FREE consutation.  There is no reason to be embarrassed.  

See also:  Financial Healing.  

I look forward to hearing from you.  

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